Therapy in Huntington Beach, CA | Counselor Dama Perez

I provide emotionally focused, culturally rooted therapy in Huntington Beach, CA for first-generation Latinas and multicultural couples who feel emotionally distant yet still deeply invested in their relationship. My work supports individuals and partners navigating attachment wounds, generational pressure, unresolved grief, and the quiet tension of trying to stay strong while feeling unseen. In Huntington Beach, where independence and a laid-back coastal identity are often part of the culture, I create a space where emotional depth is not minimized or brushed aside.


For years, I’ve worked with clients across Orange County, including those living near Main Street, Pacific City, Goldenwest, and neighborhoods along Beach Boulevard and Warner Avenue. Huntington Beach carries a very specific energy. Surf culture, long work commutes toward Irvine or Costa Mesa, and a strong sense of autonomy shape daily life. For many first-generation women here, there is a subtle push to appear easygoing and self-sufficient while privately carrying family expectations and cultural loyalty. That disconnect between the external vibe and internal emotional pressure can quietly affect how partners relate to one another.


Individuals and couples in Huntington Beach often reach out when conflict feels sharper than it should or when emotional closeness feels inconsistent despite shared commitment. They are not looking for surface-level communication tools. They want to understand why vulnerability feels risky and why certain triggers escalate so quickly. They choose this work because it respects both their independence and their cultural roots, helping connection feel secure, emotionally safe, and grounded rather than reactive.

How it works

Step 1

A thorough intake session where we explore your relationship history, cultural backgrounds, and current struggles so we can understand the deeper patterns behind the disconnection.

Step 2

Emotionally focused sessions to help you with clarity, begin repairing trust, and rebuild emotional safety.

Step 3

Ongoing, guided sessions with personalized homework, where we break unhelpful cycles, strengthen connection, and practice healthier ways of relating so your relationship feels more like a true partnership.

Explore my therapy services and specializations


Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy is for partners in Huntington Beach, CA who feel independent and capable in the world but disconnected in their relationship. You may both value freedom and strength, yet struggle to feel emotionally safe with each other. Conversations either escalate quickly or get brushed aside to keep things calm. If you are searching for couples therapy near you because you want connection that feels steady and real, this space allows you to slow down and rebuild trust.


Couples often begin to shift from defensiveness and avoidance toward clearer emotional understanding. Instead of arguing about the surface issue, you start recognizing the hurt and unmet needs underneath. Communication becomes more grounded. Emotional safety gradually replaces guardedness. The relief comes from knowing you can speak honestly without the fear of everything falling apart.


In our sessions, we explore the relational patterns shaping your connection. We gently examine attachment wounds, cultural expectations, emotional labor, and the roles each of you learned in love. This local work creates space to interrupt reactive cycles and build connection that feels mutual, secure, and sustainable.


Individual Therapy

Individual Therapy is for first-generation Latinas and professionals of color in Huntington Beach, CA who appear independent and strong but feel emotionally unsettled underneath. You may be managing work, relationships, and expectations with competence, yet privately feel anxious, disconnected, or unsure how to ask for what you need. If you are searching for individual therapy near you because you are tired of over-functioning and under-expressing, this space gives you room to slow down and be fully seen.


Clients often begin to shift from self-doubt and emotional suppression toward clarity and grounded self-trust. Instead of minimizing your feelings, you start recognizing the attachment wounds and cultural expectations shaping your reactions. Emotional awareness replaces constant overthinking. Boundaries feel steadier. The relief comes from realizing you do not have to sacrifice yourself to maintain connection.


In our sessions, we explore the patterns influencing your identity and relationships. We gently examine grief, generational pressure, perfectionism, and the habit of staying composed at all costs. This local work creates space for emotional safety, aligned choices, and a more sustainable way of living without losing yourself.


Anxiety Therapy

Anxiety Therapy is for first-generation Latinas and professionals of color in Huntington Beach, CA who appear independent and composed but feel internally restless. You may manage work, relationships, and expectations with strength, yet privately struggle with racing thoughts, tension, or a constant sense that you should be doing more. If you are searching for anxiety therapy near you because you are tired of living in quiet hypervigilance, this space helps you slow down and understand what is driving that pressure.




Premarital Counseling

Premarital Counseling is for engaged and seriously dating couples in Huntington Beach, CA who want to enter marriage feeling emotionally secure, not just excited. You may love each other deeply and still notice moments of defensiveness, avoidance, or uncertainty about how you will handle future stress. If you are searching for premarital counseling near you because you want clarity and alignment before making a lifelong commitment, this space supports intentional preparation.




Grief Counseling

Grief Therapy is for individuals in Huntington Beach, CA who feel disconnected from themselves after loss. You may be grieving quietly while maintaining strength outwardly. If you are searching for grief therapy near you because you feel emotionally tired, this space helps you slow down and feel supported.




Immigration evaluations

Immigration Evaluations are available for individuals in Huntington Beach, CA needing psychological documentation for immigration proceedings. Whether connected to asylum or hardship cases, this process requires careful and compassionate documentation. If you are searching for immigration evaluations near you, this space prioritizes clarity and professionalism.


Sessions are held in person in Irvine or virtually across California.

I serve first-generation women of color in Huntington Beach, CA 

I provide therapy services to individuals and couples in Huntington Beach and surrounding coastal Orange County communities, supporting first-generation Latinas, professionals of color, and multicultural families navigating attachment wounds, anxiety, grief, relational conflict, and generational expectations. My office, located at 4 Venture Suite 355, Irvine, CA 92618, is approximately a 30-minute drive from central Huntington Beach, and I also offer virtual sessions throughout California for added flexibility. I have served Orange County for several years, working with professionals, families, and individuals who often balance independence and achievement while quietly managing emotional strain.


My approach is emotionally-focused, culturally-responsive, and grounded in attachment-based therapy. In a community known for its coastal lifestyle, proximity to Huntington Beach Pier and Pacific City, and strong emphasis on independence and activity, many residents value self-reliance while still seeking deeper relational stability. I remain committed to offering care that prioritizes emotional safety and sustainable healing rather than surface-level coping. I serve clients throughout Huntington Beach as well as nearby areas including Fountain Valley, Costa Mesa, Westminster, and Irvine, providing a steady and culturally-aware space for local residents seeking deeper emotional clarity and relational wellbeing.

Testimonials

Dama's approach to therapy is marked by empathy, insight, and a profound commitment to fostering positive change. I can confidently attest to her exceptional skills and unwavering dedication to the well-being of her clients.

Depression/Anxiety ~ Hyland & Associates

Dama is a colleague & a professional that truly cares about her clients & their therapeutic journey. She is highly skilled in Emotionally Focused Therapy helping individuals & couples navigate & strengthen their emotional connections within relationships.

Jan Covyeau

As a former US military officer, I can see Dama being a great therapist for active-duty members, families, and veterans. I confidently recommend clients to Dama because she cares and has clients' best interests in mind.

Angela Chwe

I'm Dama Perez, founder of Casa Therapy, offering therapy in Huntington Beach, CA


Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California and Nevada, Certified Grief Educator, EFIT and EFT Trained. I support first-generation women of color navigating cycles of anxiety, relational stress, and silent emotional labor. 

Frequently asked questions

  • Can I use insurance for therapy?

     I am currently an out-of-network provider. However, I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement. Many PPO plans offer partial reimbursement checks with your provider to confirm your benefits.

  • Do you offer a sliding scale?

    Yes! I offer two sliding scale spots for clients with financial need. If cost is a concern, please reach out. I'm happy to discuss options during your consultation.

  • What does the therapy process look like?

    We start with an intake session to explore your relationship history, communication patterns, and goals. From there, we’ll meet regularly to uncover deeper emotional patterns, build new tools for connection, and work toward the relationship you want to create. Therapy is always tailored to your unique story and pace.

  • What if I need to cancel or reschedule a session?

    Life happens! I ask for at least 48 hours’ notice for cancellations or reschedules. Sessions canceled with less than 48 hours’ notice may be subject to the full session fee. No-shows or missed appointments without prior notice will be charged the full session rate, as that time is reserved specifically for you.

  • How does virtual therapy work?

    Sessions are held through a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. You’ll receive a private link before each session. All you need is a quiet and confidential space, a reliable internet connection, and a device with a camera and microphone.

  • What if I don’t feel like we’re a good fit?

    It’s completely normal to wonder if therapy is the right match for you. Building trust and feeling comfortable with your therapist is essential for meaningful growth. If at any point you feel unsure about our connection or approach, please let me know. We can talk openly about it and decide together whether to adjust our work or explore other options. Your comfort and progress are my top priorities, and I’m here to support you every step of the way whether that means continuing together or helping you find the best path forward.

  • Good Faith Estimate (No Surprises Act)

    This Good Faith Estimate shows the costs of services that are reasonably expected for the expected services to address your mental health care needs. The estimate is based on the information known to us when we did the estimate. 


    The Good Faith Estimate does not include any unknown or unexpected costs that may arise during treatment. You could be charged more if complications or special circumstances occur. If this happens, federal law allows you to dispute (appeal) the bill. 


    If you are billed for more than this Good Faith Estimate, you have the right to dispute the bill.


    You may contact the contact listed above if billed charges are higher than the Good Faith Estimate. You can request an update to the bill to match the Good Faith Estimate, ask to negotiate the bill, or ask if there is financial assistance available. 


    You may also start a dispute resolution process with the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). If you choose to use the dispute resolution process, you must start the dispute process within 120 calendar days (about 4 months) of the date on the original bill. 


    There is a $25 fee to use the dispute process. If the agency reviewing your dispute agrees with you, you will have to pay the price on this Good Faith Estimate. If the agency disagrees with you and agrees with the health care provider or facility, you will have to pay the higher amount. 


    To learn more and get a form to start the process, go to:  www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call CMS at 1-800-985-3059.


    For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate or the dispute process, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call CMS at 1-800-985-3059 .


    This Good Faith Estimate is not a contract. It does not obligate you to accept the services listed above.